A young man wants to propose to me. He has a respectable job and is committed and well-mannered, according to what I've heard. My issue is that I prefer my husband to be a fighter (military). Is it permissible for me to refuse him for this reason? Or should I give him a chance? Note that the young man comes from my community, his father works in this field, and he has previously undergone military training, but he does not work in that area.
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It is permissible for a girl to have preferences regarding her future husband, including his profession. However, it is also important to consider the character and values of the person proposing. If the young man is committed, well-mannered, and comes from a good background, it may be wise to give him a chance, even if he does not meet your specific preference for a military career. Ultimately, the decision should be made with careful consideration of both personal preferences and the qualities of the suitor.